The Mind Trick That Will Change Your To-do List

I was sitting there on the couch last evening, making my usual to-do list for the day, and the thought just kind of struck me. Here I am, making this list of things that I have to do. Already stressing somewhat over the demands of the next day, and already forgetting the most important part of motherhood. That is when it hit me.

This to-do list that I have, these are things that I get to do!

I get to buy groceries tomorrow.

That electric bill that is due tomorrow, I get to pay it!

I get to clean the bathrooms tomorrow; I even get to clean two of them!

As I sat mulling this over in my mind, realizing what it meant, I was overcome with thankfulness.

I have money to buy groceries with, a vehicle that will take me to the stores, heck, I even have my choice of produce so conveniently located in stores for me. I don’t have the worry that comes with having to grow my own food to survive. It’s right there for me. All I have to do is go and get it.

That electric bill means that we have lights to see with in the dark, I don’t have to light a bunch of candles to be able to see as the evening sun fades away. It means I have a heater that keeps our home warm. Because of that electric bill, I am able to have a washing machine, an oven, a refrigerator. It means I don’t have to cook over a campfire. (Now don’t get me wrong, I do love cooking over a campfire… every once in a while. Emphasis on a while.) It means I have hot water to wash with at the turn of a knob.

Those bathrooms I get to clean? How many times more enjoyable is it to use a toilet than to dig a hole outside, in the cold dark?

Look through your entire list of chores.

What are some of the things you get to do?

Do you have floors to mop? Dinner to make? Homework to help with? Trash to take out? Mashed potatoes to clean off the wall? If your chores look something like that, trust me, friend, you have so much to be grateful for!

Perhaps we have become so used to what we have that we are no longer grateful for it.

Friends, I encourage you to take a close list at your to-do list. Break each item down so that you can see the blessings behind it; there will be a lot of them!

Consider renaming your To-Do List. I’ve started calling mine my Get To-Do List. The effect it has on my perspective is tremendous.

Try it! You’ll be just as amazed as I was!

So friend, what is it that you get to do today?

~N

6 Comments

  • Indya | TheSmallAdventurer

    You have no idea how much I love this post. This is exactly how I choose to look at life, and I wish more people thought this way as well. Once upon a time I lived a pretty bad life, but now I live in a cute little unit with my partner, and we get to go food shopping together every weekend, cook together, watch movies, do the washing, and have wonderfully hot baths whenever we like. People get so used to every tasks that they don’t realise how privileged we are to get to do them. Happiness is in life’s little details!

    • Nikki

      Aw, thank you so much! Yes, I mean, how amazing is it that we get to just experience the small things of life with the ones we love? I love that you have this outlook! <3

  • tpicou10

    I’ve been thinking a lot about the things I get to do as well and it’s extremely humbling. I get to stay home and raise my son. I get to be my own boss and work from my laptop. I get to travel to family festivities despite living so far away. There’s so much I’m blessed to do that I try my best to remind myself. Love the idea behind this post.

    xx Tatyanna
    http://www.apopolife.com

    • Nikki

      I agree with you Tatyanna! It is so extremely humbling! We really are so blessed and get to do so many things! I have to work hard on reminding myself as well, sometimes it’s hard to see past the mess and recognize the blessing. But I think it will come with practice. <3